HAVE A GOOD & POSITIVE ATTITUDE!
We all know how important a good attitude is! And we definitely know how terrible it is to be with someone with a bad attitude!!! Yuck! No fun! ????
Here’s an example of a positive and good attitude.
...when you are having a bad day, just not happy, feeling grumpy but you still say, “Good Morning” rather than “What's so good about this morning?!” or not even answering and just ignoring.
There is a great saying that...
” ATTITUDE IS EVERYTHING!”
It really is!! We choose how we are going to react and be in every situation and in everything we do.
We need look at life with a positive, happy attitude and try to see the good in all that we do!
I know this isn’t always easy...life can be tough. Like what we are all feeling right now being stuck at home, missing our friends and activities and our EFL program.????
So, you can be a grump, make everyone around you unhappy too. Complain about everything...but think about it??? Does it really feel any better, does it change anything? NO!
So what can we do to help ourselves?
Change our attitude! With a positive attitude we see the good in people! See the good in your life not the bad!
Be willing to try new things!! It’s fun and exciting!! ????
- Smile and be friendly. … ????
- Don't complain and don't put up roadblocks for yourself.
- Be courteous and respectful to everyone all of the time.
- Do your part!
- Do what you promise.
- Don’t talk about people behind their back.
- Try to help your family and friends whenever you can.????
- Don’t let yourself get dragged into other people’s complaints and bad attitude.
- Keep a gratitude journal. Write down at least one thing every day you are thankful for!
- Use positive words to describe your life! The words that we use have a lot more power than we think! How you talk about your life affects how your life will be. Your body and mind hear you being negative. Use the words like happy, doing well, pretty good, fun, lively, you will see your life in a whole different light!
- Have fun with challenges, embrace them as adventures instead of a problem!
Enjoy this super sweet clip showing how being positive made things so much better!
Here’s a GREAT SONG!!!
While we are all staying at home together BEING RESPECTFUL OF EACH OTHER is a must!!!! This is a tough time for all of us. We can’t go to the movies, we can’t go out for dinner, we can’t go bowling, and... we can’t go to EFL!!!! ????
Being respectful means so many things and we talked about a lot of them at EFL, in fact we try to practice them every day at program. Being with other people means being respectful.
The golden rule “Treat others the way you want to be treated”
To remind you I’ve listed some of the ideas YOU gave me about what being respectful looks like.
Not talking when someone else is
Knock on a door before you walk in
Don’t do things you are not supposed to
Follow the rules
Give people personal space
Honor people’s feelings
Being on time
Do what you’re being asked to do
This is a tough time being stuck at home and it is hard on everyone not just you! But, if we all treat each other with respect think of our actions and your list above, it will be much easier to be together and get along!
All of you know how to be respectful I’ve seen you do it!! ????
Here’s a little video that is a great reminder of how to show RESPECT!
And lastly enjoy this super fun song called RESPECT to put you in a great mood!!
Having a Sense of Humour
Don’t you love to be around someone who is funny and laughs easily at themselves, that is just uplifting to be with?! ????
I think we all do!! Having a sense of humor is so important in life, and right now while we are at home and not with friends and family it is even more important!
Seeing humor in life’s mess ups and stressful times just helps to make things a little lighter. We know that sometimes we just have to “go with the flow” and just “roll with it” and if we can try to keep a smile on our face through these times it is better for us and everyone around us!
Okay, Okay: W.H.O
No need to cry, it’s only a joke.
So, watch a funny movie or tv show! Read some jokes on-line like these silly one's above. Being grumpy won’t make anyone feel better, including you!
Why did Cinderella get kicked off the soccer team?
Because she ran away from the ball!!!
Here’s a link to a cute little dog and puppy video that will make you smile!
Classic fun clip from Mrs. Doubtfire!!!
Classic fun clip from Mrs. Doubtfire!!!
Grateful for the "GREAT OUTDOORS"
This is a time when we can really appreciate being outside! Spring is here and the birds are singing, and the weather is slowly warming up! ????
We love the great outdoors at EFL, whether it is in winter playing snowman dodgeball or the summer having a swim at the beach or in Nan’s (Velma’s) pool, hiking at the farm we appreciate being outside!!
Right now, while we are all trying to stay away from crowds and germs, going outside is a great idea!???? We are so fortunate to live where we do. We are surrounded by nature and places to go for a healthy walk.
We are not in a crowded city full of people... ????
We have so many wonderful hiking trails... and everything is coming back to life after the long cold winter! ????
So how can we enjoy and be grateful for the outdoors...GO OUTSIDE! ????
- Go for a walk down your street, look for signs of spring. Take some photos if you can and post them on our group Facebook page for everyone to see!
- Go for a hike. If you have any trails near you or ask a family member from your household to take you hiking and be sure you take them on the trail with you!
- Sit outside in the sunshine, get a spot out of the wind and feel that warmth!
- If your mailbox is on your street, offer to walk down and check the mail. It’ll get you outside and you will be helping out!
“We all feel better when we are out in nature”
Here is a link for doing some bird watching in our area, have a look and it is also an app that you can get too for free! All Trails.
Now enjoy this magnificent little video that just shows how beautiful our world is!!
This is a funny clip from the movie “The Great Outdoors” Enjoy!
Be sure to get outside everyday...you”ll feel better!! ????
Being Grateful for "Friends"
Why is it important to be grateful in general? We know that we have so many things in our life that we should be grateful for, but sometimes we forget to think about “what is really important” and how we can show our gratefulness?
This week we want to think about our friends and how special they are to us.
Each day at program we enjoy the fun we have with one another! We laugh together, dance together, hike together, cook together, swim together, make crafts together and so many more wonderful things we do together!
Just think how boring it would be if we didn’t have each other? Dancing alone with just Louise would not be nearly as much fun without your friends there with you. Or going bowling without the rest of the EFL gang just would not feel the same, or any of the great activities we do together...
So, this week let's think about
“How Grateful we are for Friends!
How can we do this?
How can we show each other how much we matter?
Well... here are a few suggestions for you!
Try to come up with some ideas of your own that you could do to let your friends know how grateful you are for them!
Take the time to let your friends know how grateful you are for them!
Enjoy this great song from the 80’s about friends!
Fantastic movie clip from Wonder about “being friends”
(If you can watch the whole movie...it’s so good!!!)
What does this mean? Why is this important?
We talked about personal space and how important it is to be respectful of each other's personal space.
Now with all the concerns we are facing, and the spreading of the Corona Virus personal space is more important than ever! ????
We know that in our previous lessons on personal space, that no one likes to have intruders in their bubble unless they are invited in...
Now we are being told to keep 6 feet or 2 meters away from others outside of our homes.
What does this really mean or look like???? ????
Well... if you think of the length of the EFL van, that is about 6 feet. This is how far we need to keep away from anyone outside of our homes.
For example, when at the grocery store you need to be the length of the EFL van away from other people in order to not pick up their germs.
This will keep you safe if you must be out in public. However, guys...
“The best place to be right now is at home! Best to stay away from stores and crowds until this virus passes!”
Enjoy the fun video link below that we laughed our heads off at Sheldon who was NOT respecting personal space!